New Dads-Specially For You Daddy

[venushree]

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Now that the baby is here,it is your turn to bond!Your partner might already be well acquainted with the bundle that she has been carrying around for months,but now it is your turn to reap the benefits of this long-awaited moment!Here are few pointers to help you along :

Remember that babies aren't really breakable.Don't be afraid to hold yours!Ask someone who is around to show you some great holds for little ones whether it be a midwife,doctor,nurse,mum,relative,friend and etc.

If you are feeling left out,talk to your partner about it.Chances are it's not on purpose.

New mums often have emotional ups and downs that are not predictable.Be supportive and offer an ear when possible.Learn the warning signs of post-natal depression and seek help if the situation is heading out of control.

Be aware that new dads can also experience the blues or post-partum depression.Much in your life has changed and it's important to realise this help if you need it.

Support her with breastfeeding.Tell her that you're proud of her.Take a breastfeeding class during the prenatal if possible.At the same time,if the mother chooses not to breastfeed then accept and respect that decision.

Remember that the only thing you can't do is breastfeed.You can change diapers,soothe a crying baby,carry the baby,play with the baby etc.

Help with the other children or household.Remind mum to let the house go and to focus on her recovery and the new baby.

Mum is going to need extra sleep and care while her body recovers from birth.Get up with the baby when you can.Bring the baby to her in the middle of the night if possible.If you must go back to work,check with her during the day.Perhaps surprise her with some healthy take-away food or fresh flowers.

Remember that adding a new baby to the mix is always going to stir your life up a bit,even it's not your first baby baby.Learning to live with another human being takes time.Give yourself a break if you need it as well!

If you need help,ask for it.Know who to call in your area for help and support whether it be a doctor or midwife,lactation consultant or the local babysitter.

Seek out support from peer groups in your community and encourage your partner to do the same.Often times,people are unprepared for the changes their lives undergo once a new child enters the equation .

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[puja1408]

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